Struggling with your relationship with someone you love and feel hopeless for a fix? Having trouble connecting with your spouse so you avoid conversations that could be explosive, and instead stay silent hoping it will resolve itself? Do you find yourself single after failed relationships and starting to wonder if it’s you? Successful and lasting relationships are built on mutual trust and respect, which doesn’t just happen without work. All relationships carry the same foundational needs but tailoring those needs to the relationship you are working to build is up to you.
At Crystal Watterson Consulting, it’s my mission to help women, men and couples build relationships that bring fulfillment and joy to their lives, whether that relationship be with your spouse, partner, or the future person you are preparing yourself for. Ultimately, we must create the lifestyle that we desire, and God never meant for us to be an island. This is evidenced in Genesis, “To Work in God’s Image Is to Work in Relationship with Others” (Genesis 1:27). My focus is on helping you establish relationship goals, identify your relationship challenges, identify the work you must do as an individual to be prepared to be in a relationship, and to help you create strategic solutions to achieve the kind of relationships that bring you complete joy, and tranquility. I believe in straight talk, and strategic solutions to create strong relationships, and can’t wait to work with you to help you rediscover what your relationship is missing.
What is Relationship Coaching?
Everywhere around the world, millions of people look for the “perfect match” to share their life, yet the divorce rate is rising year after year, and has tipped the scale at over 50%! Heck, over the years, I have even caught myself admiring the relationships that other women seem to have with their spouse, thinking “I wonder what they are doing differently? Is it sex, it must be sex? Is it because they have more money, it must be that they don’t have financial stress”? My head filled with curiosity, and this nagging feeling that I wanted “more” out of my relationship, I set out to find it. The problem was, I had no idea what more was! Through a series of ups and downs in my life, I began to realize that “great relationships” don’t just happen, and that fortunately the foundation we had was strong, and with some work we would be back to the bliss we had the day we were married. I figured out that fulfilling relationships have to be created, and sometimes the words and actions that get us there aren’t clear. I learned that what I wanted out of my relationship wasn’t always understood by my husband, and that it takes a lot of real conversation, and clear action to get there.
At Crystal Watterson Consulting, we define Relationship Coaching is the process of helping couples, and individuals, create the type of relationships they are seeking. Think of relationship coaching as like having a personal fitness trainer: your coach is there to help you find your strengths, identify your challenges, and then create a plan that pushes you to the next level. The personal trainer often tells us things we don’t want to hear, but that are necessary. This can help us to take a long look in the mirror and realize we have work to do on ourselves. The success of marriage comes not in finding the “right” person, but in the ability of both partners to grow and adjust to the person they married or intend to. As I always tell my clients, “You have to grow through it, to get to it”, meaning it doesn’t happen without putting in the work. If want to create real conversation that transcends your relationships to a deeper level, join us on your journey as we connect with others looking for that same fulfillment. We will help you set inspiring new goals, create actionable steps you can take to achieve the relationship you so intently desire, and provide continued support to ensure that it lasts. It’s time for a different approach, Crystal Watterson Consulting can help. We believe Straight Talk + Strategic Solutions= Strong Relationships.